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Wednesday, January 5, 2011
How long is enough time before you can consider dating a friend of your ex-signifcant other or spouse? Does it make a difference if your ex has passed away?
LOL!!! YES IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE IF THEIR DECEASED!!! You can't live your life wondering how a dead person is going to feel (unless it's a blood relative or something). I'm sure all they ever want is for you to be happy! You can't be in heaven and holding a grudge! But if your ex is still with us, it depends on your relationship (past and present). I wouldn't do it but I wouldn't look down on someone who did. You need to consider your ex's feelings, their friendship, the seriousness of the potential relationship with their friend, and how you're going to look if it doesn't work out between the two of you. You do not want to be looked at as the girl who dated half the crew. Girl Pleeeease!
LOL!!! YES IT MAKES A DIFFERENCE IF THEIR DECEASED!!! You can't live your life wondering how a dead person is going to feel (unless it's a blood relative or something). I'm sure all they ever want is for you to be happy! You can't be in heaven and holding a grudge! But if your ex is still with us, it depends on your relationship (past and present). I wouldn't do it but I wouldn't look down on someone who did. You need to consider your ex's feelings, their friendship, the seriousness of the potential relationship with their friend, and how you're going to look if it doesn't work out between the two of you. You do not want to be looked at as the girl who dated half the crew. Girl Pleeeease!
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