Relationships & Money

Hello readers hope life is treating you all well.

As you  know financials and relationships can sometimes be a challenge.  So with that being said, I want you to tell me what you think about the saying:"You can lose money chasing men, but you will never lose men chasing money."

How true do you think this is?  

Also, how important is it for a woman to establish herself financially before entering into a serious relationship?

Hatred breeds from the lack of knowledge and understanding.

Time, awareness and understanding help ease the tensions of racially biased thinking. Step away from hatred, and step toward love and understanding.
Be prepared to experience some pain even in growth.

Your 12 yr old daughter has a male classmate, who is of another race, and she wants to help him with math.

However, she tells you about how uncomfortable she would be inviting him home because of the racially charged remarks in the home.

Should your daughter just arrange a few hours
at school to avoid any conflict? 

To change this learned attitude of hatred tomorrow, we have to change our way of thinking today

Your son is a student athlete and he has been asked to wait with one of the cheerleaders until a ride comes to pick her up.  He is of a different race. We are not only talking about African American, but also White, Hispanic, Asian, or Native American.

Once the young lady's father arrives, he sees her standing next to the young man of a different race, the father jumps out of the car cursing and screaming racial slurs, and yelling at his daughter to get in the car and runs up to the young man's face, and says, "if I find  out you touched my daughter I'm gonna kill you."

Should your son walk away and take the threat on his life lightly, or attempt to explain to the father why he was standing with his daughter?

You decide!

Your child comes home from school one day and suddenly refuses to wear the clothes you have been buying him. Instead, they insist on a certain "color" and name brand clothes ONLY. Possibly gang connected, do you decide to buy the more expensive clothes to satisfy your child?

While out with friends for lunch, unexpectedly one of them sees your significant other out with a member of the opposite sex sitting a little "too close" for comfort, do you approach and make a scene, or casually stroll over and make your presence known, or say nothing until you are in a more private setting?

We have all seen what happens when infidelity is exposed on the TV show CHEATERS. Now, tell me about some compromising situation you caught your companion in but decided to stay in the relationship!

How long is enough time before you can consider dating a friend of your ex-signifcant other or spouse? Does it make a difference if your ex has passed away?